Day of the Temper

Do you ever think of what you can do? Everyone come with certain great ability and the only matter is whether you are fully utilize them or not. If you believe in something, then within your heart, you will go for it no matter how. If you think study is important as if result is everything, and you will study like a freak, to get great grade, just for your future. If you fall in love in someone, you will go for him/her no matter what it cost, you might or might not having them, but at least, you will get your result, and this is what you are searching for. Even you are lose, if you are determinant enough, you will go for next, and keep on trying until you success. Same for your achievement, if you eager to achieve something that make you proud, outstanding in your life, you will become very determinant, and you believe, achievement is what you want, and no matter how hard the route might be, you will persist, insist until you achieve or at least close to it.

This is what law of attraction taught about, if you want something, you have to keep thinking persistant and it will come to you eventually. However, the fact is the thing won't actually come to you, is your action, that takes lead to the result that you are searching for. Same goes for the great dreamer that want to be millionaire, billionaire or the inventors. If you really want to know how to be rich, you can read thousand of financial literate books like rich dad poor dad, secret of the millionaire mind, think and grow rich et cetera, but i can tell you, you won't be rich unless you take your first small step that trying to make your own possible way to reach it. Is the matter of HOW? If you ask me, there is no certain way, and indeed you can reach it as long as you can think of it. Do you think 20% of the rich guys become rich by accident or by luck? The answer is NO. They are rich because they are determinant, clear of what they want, willing to sacrifice, persistant, and they have the concept, the behavior that what a rich should have. They don't believe fate, luck but they can create the possibility of opportunities by chances, when they have ready for their require skills. Everyone is the same exclude the disable, we have the exactly same hours per day, same structures of a human, and the only different is our appearance and what we think.

For me, appearance does really important, not in term of handsome, or pretty, or cutie, sexy whatever. Is about nice, comfortable, please. If you are not even able to make yourself look comfortable for others, i don't think you will having a great story or great future ahead unless you change. Believe me, some people don't really care about what they wear, their hairstyle, their physical appearance, but i do. I am damn freaking mind about how a person look like because this is what you give people as first impression and i am not mentioned this thing in the blog. I just want to clear of that, people always judge its book by its cover, and its true. Its simply because you are live in a real world, and our world are too visual, if you don't know, you should feel that too. Do you ever see suxing face celebrities, models or broadcasters? No, because who the fuck want a defection? Does this too rude? I am not sure, but i am definitely care mine appearance more than anyone else. When i have a set of casual wear, style wearing i will be glad, and of course, my hair need to have a nice looking, or i will just wear a cap. If i having a new hairstyle that suit me, i will be happy for the whole day, and when i am having a suxing hairstyle that annoyed me, i will be freaking pissed off the whole day. So how bout you? Having your personal style, image and favorite color is somehow important.

Other than this, great people are always handle their emotional intelligence part quite well which mean they having high EQ. To you that LIFEISNOWHERE do you look it as LIFE IS NO WHERE? or LIFE IS NOW HERE? The first one indicates you are a pestimistic person, and second one indicates you are optismistic person. Anyway, when you have pressure, angry, down, sad, tired, or all sort of negative emotions, you should have your own way to release it, but for me, when i am anger, extremely sad, i will blogging. When i am freaking boring, pressure,  i will shout just like that and won't really care about others. When i am tired, i will just sleep, after all, sleep is my main priority, follow with eat, having fun. You may have your own way to release your negative emotions as long as it works fine for you. World is colorful, yet risky. There is too many attraction, distraction, crowd with various motives, and sort of success, failure persons, and all you have to do is to make sure you are wise enough, get more experience and learn from mistakes.

 

How do you know your ability? Either you can learn it by force or naturally, when someone found something that is hard to complete and ask for your help, and you able to done it easily, thats mean you have the ability.  Ability come in different form, it might be active or passive. For me, i know what i have, and what i should learn more, or if you really dont know how, maybe you can send me a message for a chit-chat and i tell you how. My msn is joo_1125@hotmail.com. Apart from this, we should be more wiser and be nicer. If you treat other people good, they will treat you good as well. Remember that free gift is always most valuable because it's unexpected. If someone treat you not that good, dont be surprise because of your look? Their mood? your skin? or your belief. Well i am a free thinker anyway. Nowsaday teen would likely to do some easy money and earn lots of money, but this is not going to work well when you are an adult. Whats job that i consider easy money, like those telemarkerter, promoter, event helper, and those employees at restaurants and super market shops. Its because you have a  limitation that you can earn, and not much of knowledge you can learn there, if you going to stay there, you are stuck there forever. Even if singers,celebrities,models are having a time frame of working and much more on luck and appearance, and the most important is, your privacy is gone because you are being publicize.

 

For me: trainers, facilitators, specialize, professional occupation are work much more sense to me. Being an entrepreneur is about capable, knowledgeble, and experience so as every successful persons. The only matter is whether you are elite enough that people would hire you because they need you, and not you need the job. When employer hire us, they expect us to be problem solver and not a problem maker, if you are capable, everyone knows, if you are not wise enough, you will know the moment you get stab and you didnt get promote for a long period. Every jobs or not even jobs, you also have to deal with human, and thats why people skill is the most important. Do u think rich people harsh poor people so they get rich? In fact they didnt, those harsh poor people, cheat is because they are still poor but might be more to wealthy. When one person rich, they only reveal their attitudes hide within their heart more obviously. If you are good, when you are rich you are a better man, if you are bad, when you are rich you become a bad man thats all. You wont see bill gates rob the bank, robert kiyosaki rape teen girls, or donald trump burn other people houses. Indeed most of rich has one thing in common, which is donation. Well, donate might be a cover to the media shows their kindness and build up their reputation, but the fact is, they didnt did bad things. Even if corruption, make sure you dont get caught, and if you really can, control your emotion like greed, angry, love so that you are more resistable to all kind of traps but somehow its not that easy to learn.

 

One last thing i have to tell you is, reputation is important besides image. Your reputation is yours, and its follow you for the whole life. People is like, rather believe something bad than hearing something good. Its like its too good to be truth mainly because they scare of being cheated, scare of get a trap, and make all kind of nonsense assumption and add-on with their on imagination. If you do one thing bad, even you do one thousand good deeds, they still only will remember the sucky thing that you've done. Guess what? This is why i don't really like human and make sure you have no mistake AT ALL. We still have a long way to go after all, just i think i should stop here for now. ALL THE BEST to you.